December 11, 2024

One of the profound mysteries of the Christian faith is that God came to be with us in the person of Jesus! One of the many names of Jesus is Emmanuel which means “God with us.” (See Mt. 1:23). Theologians call this the incarnation which means that in Jesus the divine spirit of God and human flesh were united. John calls Jesus the Word and summarizes it in this way:

“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth (John 1:14, NIV).   

The incarnation, when God came to be with us, changes everything! And in the incarnation, Jesus models the way for serving leader to be with those they serve.

Incarnational leaders identify with those they serve.  

“The Word become flesh…” Jesus became one of us so that He could fully understand us. He was born as a helpless child and went through the normal process of growing up. He experienced pain, exhaustion, temptation, hunger, betrayal, etc. so that He would understand what those He served experienced in life. The writer of Hebrews says that Jesus is able to sympathize with our weaknesses because He was tempted as we are. (Hebrews 4:15)

Some leaders rise in power and authority and forget what it was like to be on the other side of leadership. They forget the growing process they went through and the many mistakes they made along the way. They fail to identify with those they serve. But serving leaders see themselves as human and recognize that those they serve are also humans. They call for growth, but they also sympathize with failures. Serving leaders identify with those they serve.  

Incarnational leaders relate with those they serve.   

“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.” Jesus came to live with us! A paraphrase (The Message) says that Jesus “moved into the neighborhood.” Jesus spent most of His time with the people He came to serve. He ate with them, walked with them, worked with them, laughed with them and cried with them. He built strong relationships with them.  Jesus laid aside His rights and privileges as the King of Kings and related with others in a natural winsome way. He came to be with them, not over them.

Some leaders seek to distance themselves from those they serve. They insist on special privileges and titles that distinguish themselves from followers. But serving leaders follow the example of Jesus. They lay down their rights and bridge the gap between leaders and followers. They do not seek to dominate or dictate but build genuine relationships with the ones they serve. Serving leaders relate with those they serve. 

Incarnational leaders share with those they serve.  

“We have seen his glory….full of grace and truth.” Jesus was incarnational and human but He was also a leader. He had a mission to accomplish and part of that was to reveal His plan to His disciples. He shared with them a different way to live and a different way to lead. He shared truth with them that was perfectly balanced with grace.  

Some leaders share plenty of truth but with very little grace! Others show so much grace they never get around to the truth. Serving leaders share both grace and truth.  

Some leaders start by sharing truth and see their only function as getting people to do what is expected and produce the desired results. But serving leaders follow the example of Jesus. They don’t share truth until they identify with and build relationships with those they serve. From that foundation, they share both truth and grace. Serving leaders share with those they serve. 

For further reflection and discussion:

• Take a moment to identify with one person that you lead. Imagine what life is like for them. What challenges are they facing at home, physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually? What difference will this make in the way you lead them?
• Reflect on the level of your relationship with those you lead, especially those at the lowest level in your organization. Do I enjoy being with them? When is the last time we have eaten together? Do we ever do things together that are not related to my role or because of being in the same organization?  
• Leadership is about being with those you serve. In what ways this season can you be with those you serve? Find ways to give more of your presence which is more precious than presents.     
• Have I shared truth with those I serve before I identified with them and build a relationship with them? What was the result in my leadership?
• Do I most often share more truth or more grace? How does that impact my leadership?
• Consider the following verses and reflect more on what it means to be an incarnational leader from the example of Jesus and instructions of scripture: John 4:6; 8:1-11; 11:35; Hebrews 4:15-16; 5:2; Ephesians 4:15; Philippians 2:1-11, Galatians 6:1-3.  In what way can I more closely reflect Jesus’ incarnational leadership?

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

#387, November 27, 2024

A shepherd is the most common biblical image of leadership. Shepherds are tasked with the responsibility to guide and protect the flock under their care which is a great picture of leadership. Yet, not all shepherds (leaders) lead as true shepherds. Consider Ezekiel’s words:

¹The word of the LORD came to me: ²“Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel; prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Woe to you shepherds of Israel who only take care of yourselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? ³You eat the curds, clothe yourselves with the wool and slaughter the choice animals, but you do not take care of the flock. ⁴You have not strengthened the weak or healed the sick or bound up the injured. You have not brought back the strays or searched for the lost. You have ruled them harshly and brutally. ⁵So they were scattered because there was no shepherd, and when they were scattered they became food for all the wild animals. ⁶My sheep wandered over all the mountains and on every high hill. They were scattered over the whole earth, and no one searched or looked for them (Ezekiel 34:1-6, NIV).

Ezekiel spoke for God and delivered His rebuke to the leaders of the nation. In doing so he revealed different ways shepherds can lead.

Shepherds see leadership either to benefit self or others.  

The accusation against these leaders was that they were using the flock to care for their own needs. “Woe to you shepherds of Israel who only take care of yourselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock?” The leaders were enjoying the meat, the wool, and the milk from the flock. God does not say that these things should not be enjoyed, but when the focus of the leaders was only on themselves it was wrong. Instead, they should have been focused on strengthening the weak and taking care of the sick and injured. God rebukes them because they “have not strengthened the weak or healed the sick or bound up the injured. You have not brought back the strays or searched for the lost.”  If they would have strengthened the flock, they could have enjoyed a good lamb dinner. But when they focused on the dinner, they destroyed the flock.  

Some leaders are continually focused on how they will benefit from their position but serving leaders use their position for the benefit of others.  Some leaders ask “What’s in it for me?” but serving leaders say, “I’m in it for you!”

Shepherds use leadership either to display their own power or empower others.

Another accusation God makes is, “You have ruled them harshly and brutally.”  These shepherds abused their power and used it to rule harshly. They showed no concern for the well-being of the sheep. Many leaders use their leadership role to let everyone know who’s the boss! They see care and compassion as signs of weakness instead of strength. But serving leaders are in power to empower. They use their authority to give authority to others. They show genuine care for those they lead.

Shepherds demonstrate leadership that scatters or unites others.

 God describes the impact of the poor leadership on His people, “So they were scattered because there was no shepherd,…”  Without adequate leadership, the sheep were lost and started wandering to other places. They looked elsewhere for direction and guidance and ultimately scattered. Some leaders use their power to “divide and conquer” people.  They allow and encourage mistrust, petty gossip and division, believing that they will be more powerful when others are divided. But serving leaders use power to bring people together in ways that unite them. They believe strength comes from strong teams united around a common vision and goal.

As a leader, you are like a shepherd. What kind of shepherd will you choose to be?

For further reflection and discussion:

• What benefits do I enjoy as a leader? (List everything you think about, tangible and intangible items.) Then reflect on these questions:
  • Do I lead because of these benefits or do I lead because of what I can do for others?
  • Do the benefits I receive cause me to focus more on my own needs and desires than on those of the people I lead?
• How do I use the power I have? How quickly do I share power with others? What is the result in my leadership? (Reflect on a leadership action you took in the past week as you answer these questions.)
• Do I lead most naturally with the mentality of “divide and conquer” or “our unity is our strength”? What have I done in the past week to demonstrate this?  
• Read the rest of this chapter (34) in Ezekiel and look for additional insights into the impact poor leaders have on others.         

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll look at how leaders follow.

November 13, 2024

Paul’s description of a thriving body that grows and becomes stronger and stronger is a powerful image for any organization and a healthy model for any leader to follow.

¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. ¹⁵ Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. ¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Ephesians 4:11-16). 

In this scripture, Paul describes a thriving world. We have already looked at the actions of clarifying and embedding the vision, values and mission and building teams on strengths. In this final issue, we focus on how serving leaders share their power with others. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Upend the Pyramid™” as this concept turns the traditional model of leadership upside down! Serving leaders spread their power.

Serving leaders spread the power by delegating.

Paul says that the work of the leaders is to “equip his [God’s] people for works of service.” Many leaders see their work as doing the work. They work hard and demonstrate how much they can do. They insist on doing the work themselves and want to keep all the power. But serving leaders realize that the work of leadership is to delegate power to others who are called to do the work. They recognize that they are in power to empower others. Their work is to serve those doing the work. They reflect on what tasks they are doing that others could do. Then they delegate that work to others and give them the corresponding authority.   

Serving leaders spread the power by equipping others.

Delegating releases power to others; equipping trains them to do the work well. Some leaders assign tasks to others but assume that they’ll learn how to do it on their own. But serving leaders spend more and more of their time equipping others. They recognize that as they grow others, they are developing other leaders not simply followers. As they do so they are also growing an organization where people thrive.

Serving leaders spread the power by preparing for succession.  

When leaders are spreading the power, growing and developing others around them, they are effectively preparing the organization for the time that they will no longer be in the leadership role. Some leaders work hard with little thought to what will happen after they are gone. But serving leaders prepare for the long-term success of their organization by delegating responsibility, sharing their power and equipping others to do the work. Little by little the organization becomes mature and able to thrive even in their absence. Where leaders spread the power people thrive!

For further reflection and discussion:

-Reflect on your own leadership in the areas of delegation and empowering others. How effectively does my leadership release power? How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team?

-When is the last time I delegated something to others? Was it primarily to develop them or to avoid doing the work myself? Did I clearly articulate what I expected from them and what level of authority I was giving them? What was the result and what can I learn from it?

-How much of my time is spent doing the work and how much time is spent equipping others to work? What can I do to increase the time I spend on equipping others?  

-What would happen in my organization if I was suddenly gone? Would it survive? Thrive? What does this say about my leadership and what can I do to better prepare for the time I will be gone?

-Read again the scripture above (Ephesians 4:11-16) considering your organization in the area of empowering others. What is one step you can take this week to improve?            

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll look at a new series!

Click here for a resource from Center for Serving Leadership to help you in this area: UTP Empowerment Planner Complete A4 v.17

October 30, 2024

When the vision, values and mission of any organization are clarified and embedded deeply into the culture of the organization people thrive. But Paul’s vision also includes two more actions serving leaders can take to build a thriving world. 

¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. ¹⁵ Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. ¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Ephesians 4:11-16). 

In this scripture, Paul describes a thriving world, one in which each person is contributing their best to the whole. In this issue, we focus on how the serving leader synchronizes the team. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Build on Strength™”.

Serving leaders synchronize the team by acknowledging strengths.  

Paul’s vision of the church body is diverse. He mentions a variety of gifts for the leaders and concludes by saying that the body will grow “as each part does its work.” Each part has a unique work. No part can do every work. Some leaders assume that if someone can do a job well, it must be a strength. But serving leaders look for areas of service that are life-giving to people. They first identify their own strengths and then work with their entire team to help each one identify areas in which they are not only good at doing but also enjoy doing.

Serving leaders synchronize the team by aligning strengths to tasks.   

When strengths are identified it is possible to begin to align assignments to those strengths. Paul would not ask the evangelist to prophesy; he would expect the evangelist to bring in new members. In the same way, serving leaders identify activities that bring life to their team members and then as much as possible align their assignments to that area. Each one will use the strengths that they have to bring their best to the team. Many leaders assign people to tasks simply based on what needs to be done and who is available. But serving leaders recognize that each person is uniquely wired to thrive at specific tasks. Wherever possible they adjust responsibilities to align with strengths.

Serving leaders synchronize the team by adjusting team roles.   

The beauty of teams is that each part needs the others. Paul implies that no leader with one of the gifts mentioned will be able to lead alone. They need the others.  Some leaders believe they should be able to do everything well. But serving leaders acknowledge that there is no such thing as a “well-rounded leader” but there can be well-rounded teams! They deliberately work to bring people around them that will help strengthen them in complimentary areas. And they work to align their teams to thrive by adjusting roles as much as possible to get people working in the areas of their strengths. Where teams are synchronized, people thrive!

For further reflection and discussion:

-Reflect on your own leadership in this area. How effectively does my leadership synchronize my team? How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team?

-Are there things I am good at but do not enjoy doing? What should I do about this? What about those on my team? Do I actually know what they enjoy doing most? How can I find out? 

-When I identify strengths on my team, what can I do to shift their assignments towards areas of strengths?

-How can we talk as a team about individual strengths and make adjustments as much as possible and appropriate?

-Read again the scripture above (Ephesians 4:11-16) considering your organization in the area of teamwork and finding the right place for every person. What is one step you can take this week to improve?        

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll examine how serving leaders create thriving by spreading their power.

Click here for a resource from Center for Serving Leadership to help you in this area:  BOS Functional Strengths Identifier.

October 16, 2024

We have reflected on two actions that serving leaders take which produce a thriving world—they shape the vision and set the values. A third action serving leaders take to produce thriving is to share the mission. Again, consider Paul’s vision of the church body.

¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. ¹⁵ Instead of speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, Christ. ¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Ephesians 4:11-16). 

Paul describes a thriving world in which each part is doing its part and the body is growing to healthy maturity. In this issue, we focus on how serving leaders share the mission of the organization. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Blaze the Trail™”.  Mission addresses the question, “What do we do that brings value to those we serve?” 

Serving leaders share the mission by clarifying priorities.

Paul reveals the mission of the body in this passage. There are “works of service” and an acknowledgment that “each part does its work.” There is work to be done and clients, customers, or members to serve. Each member has a part to play in fulfilling the mission and every organization has a unique way in which they add value to the world. Many leaders focus on making sure everyone is busy. But serving leaders share the mission with everyone by clarifying priorities so that everyone is busy doing the right things. They make it abundantly clear to everyone what work serves the customer/client/member in ways that ensure the mission is accomplished. 

Serving leaders share the mission by teaching.

Paul encourages the leaders to “equip his [God’s] people for works of service.” He understood that thriving required the leaders to teach others how to do their work. Many leaders, especially founders of organizations, intuitively understand the special value that they bring and what special “flavor” of service they bring to the world. And they assume that in time others will learn it from them. But serving leaders realize that mission critical work must be taught. They are quick to say, “Let me show you how we do this in this organization and why doing it this way helps us accomplish our mission.” They teach, train, observe, correct and instruct until the work is done in the right way.

Serving leaders share the mission by removing obstacles.

Paul talks about the “waves” and “winds” that will distract people from the real work of the church. He recognizes that it will be easy to lose focus and start doing things that don’t really produce maturity. Over time many leaders slowly allow excessive reporting, unnecessary meetings, redundant tasks, and inefficient workflows to develop. But serving leaders work continually to remove obstacles to the mission.

Where the mission is clear and everyone knows how to do their part to accomplish the mission people thrive!

For further reflection and discussion:

-Reflect on your own leadership in this area. How effectively does my leadership share the mission of our organization? How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team?

-How clear is our mission? What do I need to do as a leader to clarify what activities are mission-critical in our organization?

-What percent of my time is invested in teaching others how to do their work? What should it be? What do I need to do to move in the right direction?

-What areas of waste exist in my organization? (Consider inefficient movements, wasted time, meetings that are not focused, paperwork, time spent on email and other areas.) Which one of these will I do something about today?

-Read again the scripture above (Ephesians 4:11-16) considering your organization in the area of your mission. What is one step you can take this week to improve?        

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll look at how serving leaders create thriving by synchronizing their teams.

Click here for a resource from Center for Serving Leadership to help you in this area: BTT Success Factors Discovery Tool A4 v.17

#384  Serving Leaders
Produce a Thriving World: They Share the Mission October 16, 2024Snippet:  Reflections for Serving Leaders, latest issueWe have reflected on two actions that
serving leaders take which produce a thriving world—they shape the vision and
set the values. A third action serving leaders take to produce thriving is to
share the mission. Again, consider Paul’s vision of the church body. ¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles,
the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to
equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built
up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the
knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure
of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be
infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every
wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful
scheming. ¹⁵ Instead of speaking the truth in love, we will
grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, Christ.
¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every
supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its
work (Ephesians 4:11-16).  Paul describes a thriving world in
which each part is doing its part and the body is growing to healthy maturity.
In this issue, we focus on how serving leaders share the mission of the
organization. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Blaze the Trail™”.  Mission addresses the question, “What do we
do that brings value to those we serve?” 
Serving leaders share the mission by
clarifying priorities. Paul reveals the mission of the body
in this passage. There are “works of service” and an acknowledgment that “each
part does its work.” There is work to be done and clients, customers, or
members to serve. Each member has a part to play in fulfilling the mission and
every organization has a unique way in which they add value to the world. Many
leaders focus on making sure everyone is busy. But serving leaders share the
mission with everyone by clarifying priorities so that everyone is busy doing
the right things. They make it abundantly clear to everyone what work serves
the customer/client/member in ways that ensure the mission is
accomplished.  Serving leaders share the mission by
teaching. Paul encourages the leaders to “equip
his [God’s] people for works of service.” He understood that thriving required
the leaders to teach others how to do their work. Many leaders, especially
founders of organizations, intuitively understand the special value that they
bring and what special “flavor” of service they bring to the world. And they
assume that in time others will learn it from them. But serving leaders realize
that mission critical work must be taught. They are quick to say, “Let me show
you how we do this in this organization and why doing it this way helps us
accomplish our mission.” They teach, train, observe, correct and instruct until
the work is done in the right way. Serving leaders share the mission by
removing obstacles. Paul talks about the “waves” and
“winds” that will distract people from the real work of the church. He
recognizes that it will be easy to lose focus and start doing things that don’t
really produce maturity. Over time many leaders slowly allow excessive
reporting, unnecessary meetings, redundant tasks, and inefficient workflows to
develop. But serving leaders work continually to remove obstacles to the
mission. Where the mission is clear and
everyone knows how to do their part to accomplish the mission people thrive!   For
further reflection and discussion:Reflect on your own leadership in this
area. How effectively does my leadership share the mission of our organization?
How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team? How clear is our mission? What do I
need to do as a leader to clarify what activities are mission-critical in our
organization? What percent of my time is invested in
teaching others how to do their work? What should it be? What do I need to do
to move in the right direction? What areas of waste exist in my
organization? (Consider inefficient movements, wasted time, meetings that are
not focused, paperwork, time spent on email and other areas.) Which one of
these will I do something about today? Read again the scripture above
(Ephesians 4:11-16) considering your organization in the area of your mission.
What is one step you can take this week to improve?           Until next time, yours on the journey, Jon Byler In the next issue, we’ll look at how
serving leaders create thriving by synchronizing their teams.   Click here for a resource from Center
for Serving Leadership to help you in this area: Success Factors Discovery Tool
 

October 2, 2024

Serving leaders create a world in which people thrive. This world is described by Paul:

¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. ¹⁵ Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. ¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Ephesians 4:11-16). 

Paul’s vision is of a thriving body, where leaders are doing their work and the followers have also found their place to thrive. In this issue, we focus on how serving leaders produce thriving as they set the values of the organization. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Raise the Bar™”. Values answers the question, “How will we relate to each other and those we serve?”  

Serving leaders set the values by naming them.   

Paul clearly identifies at least one value in this passage, “speaking the truth in love.” He wants to make clear the kind of communication that is expected in this body so he names it.  All organizations have values whether or not they are named. You can observe the values of any group by observing behaviors and noticing what is allowed, what is encouraged and what is rewarded. However many leaders don’t name their values, they just focus on getting the work done with little thought or concern about how people are relating to each other. But serving leaders, like Paul, take the time to think about the values that they want to see expressed in the organization and name them.  They find a few values that they really want to focus on and keep them in front of everyone in the organization.

Serving leaders set the values by defining them.

A value like “speaking the truth in love” may look good on the wall, but what does it actually mean in daily interactions? Some leaders assume that if a value is named, everyone will understand what it means. But serving leaders understand that values need to be clearly defined if they are to impact behavior. So they work hard to define what each value looks like in real life. They give examples of what it looks like as well as what it does not look like and make sure everyone understands what that value looks like. Then serving leaders look for opportunities to connect an action they observe with a value of the organization.

Serving leaders set the values by enforcing them.

What happens when someone does not speak “truth” or not speak it “in love”? This is a test for leaders.  Followers watch closely to see what happens when a value is not practiced. They watch to see if the leader practices the value or just tells others to practice it. They watch to see if all will be held accountable or only certain persons. Some leaders are not willing to uniformly hold everyone to the shared values. But serving leaders hold the standards high and enforce them diligently. They are willing to have hard conversations around values instead of hoping that with time the behaviors will change. They understand that naming, defining and enforcing values creates a thriving world for their organization.

 Where values are clearly understood, defined and enforced, people thrive!

For further reflection and discussion:

-Reflect on your own leadership in the area of values. How effectively does my leadership name, clarify and enforce values? How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team?

-Are the values of my organization clearly named? If so, how well am I living out these values as a leader? If not, use the tool below to name your values. You may want to do this with your leadership team or other key individuals in your organization.

-How well does every person on our team understand what our values look like in real life? What can I do this week to strengthen our team in this area?

-Is there someone on our team that has been violating a value but I have not taken any action? What do I need to do and when will I do it?

-Read again the scripture above (Ephesians 4:11-16). Are there other values implied in this passage? If so, what are they?           

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll examine how serving leaders create thriving by sharing the mission.

Click here for a resource from Center for Serving Leadership to help you in this area: Values Discovery and Definition Tool.

September 18, 2024

Serving Leaders Produce a Thriving World: They Shape the Vision

 September 18, 2024

Snippet:  Reflections for Serving Leaders, latest issue

Serving leadership works! Serving leadership produces environments where people come to life, find meaning and purpose, and bring their best selves to the mission of the organization. Everything, even the bottom line, improves and thrives as a result!

The biblical foundation for serving leadership, and The Serving Leader Model®, is found in Paul’s vision for the church.

¹¹ So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, ¹² to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up ¹³ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. ¹⁴ Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. ¹⁵ Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. ¹⁶ From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Ephesians 4:11-16).  

The serving leadership principles outlined by Paul in this passage produce a thriving church and will also produce a thriving workplace because they are based on God’s design for the universe! In this series, we’ll look at five actions serving leaders take. First, in this issue, the shaping of vision. The Serving Leader Model® calls this “Run to Great Purpose™”. Vision addresses the question, “Why do we exist and why does it matter?”  

Serving leaders shape the vision by identifying purpose.    

Paul invites his readers to see the purpose of where they are going. “…until we all reach unity…we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.” As he describes this vision he gives meaning and purpose to all that they are doing.  

Some leaders focus on the tasks people need to do and push for completion of the tasks without articulating a higher purpose. But serving leaders connect the work to a higher purpose. They clarify the purpose and share it with everyone in the organization. This does not mean that they must create a new or different vision from a previous leader but they do ensure that it is clearly identified.  

Serving leaders shape the vision by raising purpose high.

Some leaders put a purpose statement on their official documents but never refer to it again. But serving leaders work continually to keep it in front of the people they serve. They talk about it; they share stories that connect with the purpose. Serving leaders help people thrive by continually keeping the vision in front of the entire team.  

Serving leaders shape the vision by embedding purpose.

Some leaders talk about their vision but don’t deliberately get the vision embedded into the systems of the organization. But serving leaders keep working until every aspect of the organization is infused with purpose. This includes all the internal systems. Serving leaders ensure that vision is used when bringing new people to the team; they use the great purpose to evaluate individual and team performance and they use their purpose to make financial decisions. They recognize that where purpose is clearly identified, continually shared and embedded throughout the organization people thrive!

For further reflection and discussion:

-Reflect on your own leadership in the area of vision/purpose. How effectively does my leadership shape the vision of my organization? How does my leadership in this area impact the thriving of our team?

-Do we have a clearly defined vision? If so, what can I do this week to raise it higher? If not, what process will I follow to develop one?  (Use the Vision Discovery tool below to assist you in this process.

-How well is our vision embedded into all our internal systems? What is one step we can take to include vision in our internal training?

-Read again the scripture above (Ephesians 4:11-16) considering your organization in the area of vision or great purpose. What is one step you can take this week to improve?           

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

Click here for a resource from Center for Serving Leadership to help you in this area: Vision Discovery Tool

In the next issue, we’ll look at how serving leaders create thriving by setting the values.  

September 4, 2024

The tremendous impact of serving leadership comes at a high price. Jesus used the occasion of an argument among the disciples to teach them the cost of serving leadership.

²⁴A dispute also arose among them as to which of them was considered to be greatest. ²⁵Jesus said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. ²⁶But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves (Luke 22:24-26, NIV).

 We have already examined Jesus’ call for His disciples to release their love of positions and their desire for power. The example of leaders eager to be called “benefactors” reveals the final area Jesus calls His disciples to release—prestige. Benefactors are persons who give money or assistance to a person or cause. That sounds like a good thing! But notice that Jesus says these leaders are not called benefactors by others, but they “call themselves Benefactors.”  They want the prestige that comes with being a leader who gives. But they don’t have the heart of a giving leader. They are not serving others, they are serving themselves! They are consumed with prestige.

We can think of prestige as all the honor, privileges, and “perks” that come with leadership. Prestige may include the best seat at the table, the best parking spot, the biggest office, a good vehicle, a special place at the front of the line (or no line at all!), special titles, membership in the exclusive club, special attire, etc.

Serving leaders release prestige as a right.

The Gentile rulers called themselves nice names and expected everyone to give them honor and prestige because of their position. It was their right. They were quickly offended when they were not addressed with the proper title or protocol. Again Jesus calls for a radically different way. “You are not to be like that.” Serving leaders release prestige as a right. They let go of their ego to serve the organization and the people around them. They are not quickly offended when others do not respect them properly. Serving leaders should be the most honored leaders alive because they are the best! They deserve prestige more than dictators and ego-driven leaders. But they release this right to serve others.

Serving leaders reject prestige as a measure.

The leaders Jesus described used prestige as a measure of their value and success. They loved to be recognized as benefactors and made a big show of their importance. But serving leaders reject prestige as a measure of their value or success. They are not concerned with their titles and they are not impressed with the perks that come with their role. They are not afraid to mingle with ordinary people because they are not flaunting their accomplishments. Serving leaders measure their success by their ability to serve others. They see themselves as successful when others around them succeed.

Serving leaders receive prestige as stewards.

Some leaders seek perks and prestige but serving leaders seek to serve. When they receive prestige and honor, serving leaders receive them as gifts with which they are entrusted. They look for ways to bless others with the prestige given to them. They look at and affirm the contributions of others. They consciously seek to bring others into the circle of honor rather than trying to keep them out. Serving leaders don’t refuse prestige but they use it to more effectively serve others.  

Serving leaders are called to release the most coveted symbols of leadership: position, power and prestige. But as they release these things, they also release to their world the impact of leadership that truly transforms, inspires, and energizes those who follow.    

For further reflection and discussion:

• In my context what are the most common indicators of prestige for leaders? (List at least 5 of them.)   Which of these is the most important to me?
• Are there ways I am tempted to measure my worth by the perks of my role? Do I like to remind others of those special privileges I have?
• How concerned am I about my titles? When people don’t use my title or make a mistake about my title, what does it do in my heart? How do I respond? How does that impact my ability to lead as a servant?
• In what ways can I use the honor and privileges I enjoy to serve others this week?  

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll begin a new series.  

In our exploration of serving leadership, we typically focus on the benefits and rewards of serving others and indeed there are many. But there is also a high price to serving leadership—a price that many are not willing to pay. Serving leadership requires releasing things that many leaders value greatly. In this series we’ll look at three of these costs by reflecting on a teaching of Jesus to His disciples.

²⁴A dispute also arose among them as to which of them was considered to be greatest. ²⁵Jesus said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. ²⁶But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves (Luke 22:24-26, NIV).

 The disciples are having a dispute about leadership and who would be in the top position. Jesus used the debate to provide insight into the type of leadership He was expecting from His followers. It would be radically different than their struggle for positions and different from what they had seen modeled by others. He states bluntly, “You are not to be like that!” He goes on to describe what it would look like to be “the one who serves.”

The disciple’s desire for position is the first area Jesus calls serving leaders to release.

Serving leaders release position as a right.

The disciples started their argument with the assumption that one of them would be in the top position, the only debate was who it would be. They all wanted to be on the top of the organizational chart and they likely each stated their case for why they would be the greatest. They felt like they had earned the right to that position. Some leaders focus their energy on climbing to the highest position and see others as competitors for that role. They delight in telling others how they worked for their position or earned a promotion. But serving leaders surrender this right, they don’t compete with others to get top positions and are equally able to make an impact when they are “like the youngest.”

Serving leaders reject position as a measure.

The disciples were concerned with who would be the most important person on their team. They assumed that the one who was the highest would be the “greatest.” Leaders often use their position as a measure of their value. If they have a “high” position, they believe they have more value as a person.  

Some leaders see their position as an indication of their greatness and delight in telling others their title and role as an indication of their value to the world. They are eager to mention the numbers of people serving them in the organization, how much income the company is earning, and how things have improved since they are in charge. But serving leaders surrender measuring their value by their position. They seek to be like “the one who serves.”  

Serving leaders receive position as stewards.

Jesus didn’t say that it is wrong to have a position but He rebuked their striving for positions. As we have observed many leaders see their position as a right and an affirmation of their worth. But serving leaders release their right to a position. Then they receive a position as a steward. They see their position simply as a place from which they can serve others and the organization. The higher the position; the more opportunities they see to serve.  

For further reflection and discussion:

• What is my heart’s attitude towards the position I currently hold? Do I feel entitled to this position because of my hard work? Do I feel the position is beneath what is rightfully mine? Do I long for a higher position? How does my leadership reflect this attitude of my heart?
• What do I use to measure my value as a leader? Is it related to my position or my impact? How would I view my worth today if my position was stripped away from me and I no longer had a title? How do the words of Jesus challenge me in this area and what can I do to see my value properly?
• If my position is a gift from God to be used for Him, what difference will that make in how I lead others today?

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll look at how serving leaders pay the price of giving up power.