#391, Feb. 5, 2025

Leaders lead—but they also follow! We have examined how serving leaders follow those in authority over them and how they follow those ahead of them. In this issue, we’ll continue to look at Paul’s instructions to the church in Corinth and reflect on how leaders follow those around them, their peers.   

Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ (1 Corinthians 11:1, NIV).

We can easily overlook the fact that when Paul says “follow my example” he was not writing to an individual but to the entire church. He expected the Corinthians to be followers as a group, not as individuals. Paul assumed they would learn from each other and help each other on this journey. Serving leaders reflect on what it means to lead not in isolation but with others who are on the same journey.  Just as serving leaders follow those who are over them and ahead of them, they also humbly learn to follow those around them. 

Serving leaders follow those around them by noticing.   

As Paul encouraged this group to follow his leadership, he expected them to look around at the others in the group and notice what they were doing. A serving leader can also learn by simply noticing what others around them are doing. In some cases, a leader will be able to see positive examples from which to learn. In the Corinthian church, there were lots of examples of people not doing well! All peers offer learning opportunities to leaders who simply notice.

Some leaders are so focused on what they are doing that they don’t notice what others are doing. But serving leaders look around. They observe their peers and learn from them. Where they see their peers making mistakes, they make corrections in their own leadership to avoid the same mistakes. Where they notice success, they are secure enough to affirm that success and reflect on what they can learn from it. They follow their peers by noticing.  

Serving leaders follow those around them by adapting.   

Some leaders see success in another place and rush to imitate what is being done with no discernment of how it will work in the context of their own gifting, vision, and mission. But as serving leaders notice what their peers are doing that is working well, they reflect on what they can learn and apply to their own leadership context. They do not rush to imitate exactly what another person is doing but ask themselves how the success of their peers could best be adapted to their own situation. They may seek counsel from someone ahead of them to help discern what adaptations would be most helpful.  They follow their peers by adapting.

Serving leaders follow those around them by collaborating.

As Paul encouraged the group at Corinth to follow him, he taught them a lot about the unique gifts each person brought to the team. He was encouraging interdependence among them. Serving leaders learn to collaborate with their peers. They acknowledge that they do not have strengths in every area and that there is someone else on the team who can complement their weaknesses.

Some leaders see everyone around them as a potential threat, a competitor. But serving leaders see people around them as opportunities to become stronger. They follow their peers by collaborating.

Following peers requires much thought and discernment and serving leaders should not follow them alone but as they follow those over them and ahead of them. Following only peers is short-sighted; not following them is equally blind! Serving leaders see those who are around them as a valuable gift and gladly follow.

For further reflection and discussion:

• How has my leadership been shaped, or not shaped, by those around me? How has this helped or hindered my own growth as a leader?
• Who do I consider my peers in leadership? (List at least 5 other leaders.) Have I seen this group as competitors or people that I can learn from? In what ways can I learn from their lives? What could I adopt from their leadership that would be effective in my own context?   
• What are specific ways that I could collaborate with my peers? What one step will I take this week to begin this process?
• Read the account of Paul’s interaction with the church leaders in Acts 15. Reflect on how Paul related to them as they grappled with a very contentious issue. Are there ways in which he showed respect for them as authorities in the church? Are there ways he acknowledged that the group of leaders at Jerusalem were ahead of him? In what ways might he have considered this as a group of his peers? What do you learn from his example that can be applied in your own leadership?  

Until next time, yours on the journey,

Jon Byler

In the next issue, we’ll examine how leaders follow those under them.